If yourboyfriendwill only have a conversation with you about super serious stuff when you're both hanging out at his place, or if he's always continuing a fight there, you should know that he's manipulating you. However, perhaps I know how to push his buttons as he does with mine and we get into it with each other sometimes. The only difference between an eight year old and a man in an angry mans body is that the man can speak like an eight year old without laughing and in fact, look very serious. then you have a real issue here. I am so angry with this MF I feel like crying for you. He's told me many times he wants to get married to me and have a family together. Those aren't too bad. My boyfriend gets angry and violent when he drinks. They all present a "problem" and provide an event that made them seem as though they are broken, that they are troubled. So my advice is to write him an apology letter and drop it off at home while hes not there. Watch out for this argument with your boyfriend because it could mean hes manipulative.

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